Sword Queen meditation

Survived a duel tonight; Sword Queen versus Grail Queen. This Grail Queen took a little bruising from the Sword Queen but held her own.
Lessons learned;

• remember the spaces, DO breathe
• fair share of the conversation, but DON´T be bullied
• DO allow equal validaty to both individuals AND DO challenge anything that conflicts with my views.
• DO know when it is appropriate and necessary to call on a friend that can help me AND DO accept that in asking for help I am effectively dumping my problem on them.
• DO remember to show appreciation but DO NOT be effusive as, in a true friendship, these things have a way of balancing out.